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The 8% : A Post Election Reflection on Community Support and Personal Growth

Reflecting on Post-Election Feelings and Community Support
 
Emotions and Election Impact
 
- **Personal Reaction**: Shar opens up about being significantly affected by the recent election results, expressing a mix of shock, upset, and hope.
- **Emotional Support**: Emphasis on the podcast serving as a space for shared feelings and a sense of community.
- **Unedited Expression**: Chooses to share thoughts in an unfiltered manner, prioritizing authenticity while maintaining respect.
 
Experiences with Race and Politics
 
- **Colorism Discussion**: Planned topic was sidelined to address the immediate emotional impact of the election.
- **Racism and Denial**: Shar discusses personal encounters with racism, including being discredited and gaslit by others.
- **Trump's Election**: Attributes an increase in openly racist behavior to Trump's presidency, recounting personal experiences of discrimination.
 
Personal Journey and Growth
- **Voting Shift**: Shar shares a personal transition from voting for Trump in 2016 to advocating for black women's rights, based on increased awareness and rejection of past influences.
- **Family Dynamics**: Highlights the complexities of discussing politics and race in interracial families or with those holding differing views.
 
Community and Solidarity
- **Importance of Black Community**:Shar discusses the struggle and isolation felt in white-dominated environments, especially for those raised in white families or communities.
- **Sisterhood and Support**: Encourages reaching out to fellow black women for support and understanding, emphasizing the strength found in communal connections.
Action and Engagement
- **Avoiding Family Arguments**: Shar advises against engaging in potentially draining and divisive discussions with family members about politics.
- **Call to Action**: Motivates listeners to focus their energies on support, education, and the fight for equality, emphasizing the power of community to overcome challenges.
 Outreach and Future Focus
- **Listener Engagement**:  Shar invites listeners to reach out for support and promises to return to regular programming, underscoring ongoing commitment to dialogue and community support.
 
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This reflection encapsulates the depth of feeling in the aftermath of a polarizing election, providing a heartfelt call to action for unity, understanding, and mutual support within the community. It serves as a reminder of the resilience and solidarity among those facing discrimination and highlights the importance of continual growth, learning, and advocacy.
 
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Election Day Special: Beyond the Ballot - The Politics of Black Hair

 
Welcome to a very special episode of our podcast, where we dive into a conversation that's a cut above the rest - literally. As we stand on the brink of election results that promise to free us from the barrage of political spam, we're channeling our Election Day jitters into a discussion that's both timely and timeless: the politics of black hair.
 
In an arena where the aesthetic has often leaned towards a Eurocentric ideal, we're combing through the history and significance of black hair in political spheres. From historical focus groups obsessing over presidential partings to the game-changing locks of today's trailblazers, we're exploring how hair intersects with identity, power, and societal norms.
 
Dive deep with us as we untangle the story of black hair in politics, from Eisenhower's bald presidency to Barack Obama's paradigm-shifting presence, and the fascinating emergence of a woman of color candidature. We're not just talking hairstyles; we're probing the critical role of appearance and voter expectations in political candidacy and representation.
 
Hear the scandalous side of political hairdos, from Nancy Pelosi's controversial salon visit during pandemic lockdowns to the alleged haircare faux pas of other high-profile politicians. And amidst all this, we're shedding light on the struggles and achievements of black women navigating this tangled landscape, smashing stereotypes with every curl and coil.
 
Our special salute goes to those making a resounding statement with their hair in the halls of power: Stacey Abrams, Karine Jean-Pierre, and Ketanji Brown Jackson, to name a few. Their courage and authenticity are reshaping perceptions and challenging norms, proving that leadership and professionalism are not a matter of hair texture but of skill, dedication, and authenticity.
 
This episode isn't just another talk. It's a celebration of progress, a call to action for more inclusivity, and a reminder of the diverse beauty that strengthens the fabric of our democracy. Amidst the tension of Election Day, let us reflect on how far we've come and the leaps still ahead, in the politics of hair and beyond.
 
So, before you cast your vote or post your "I Voted" sticker selfie (sweater orientation checked), join us for a meaningful detour into the politics of black hair. It's a conversation you won't want to miss - because when it comes to shaping our future, every strand counts.
 
Stay tuned, subscribe, and let's keep unraveling the stories that matter. Your voice, your vote, and your hair - they're all part of the big, beautiful democracy we live in. Here's to making every bit of it count. See you on the airwaves, and remember - democracy looks good on you.
 
Till next time, keep embracing the inevitable, and maybe, just maybe, let's start voting for folks based on their policies rather than their hairstyles. Mmkay, bye bye now!
 
Check out where to vote here: 
https://www.vote.org
 
 

Embracing Cultures with Care: A Journey Beyond Halloween

**Episode Summary:**
 
In this enlightening episode of the Puffy Hair Podcast, Shar delves deep into the vibrant yet often misunderstood aspects of Halloween, cultural appropriation, and the celebration of black culture. From dissecting the thin line between cultural appreciation and appropriation to navigating the complexities of blackfishing and the importance of embracing one’s roots, Shar offers a candid look at the significance of our choices in fashion, style, and beyond. Join us as we explore the liberating, yet sometimes daunting, journey of self-exploration and cultural sensitivity. It’s a hauntingly insightful episode you won’t want to miss.
 
**Key Topics:**
 
- **Halloween Revisited:** Shar's personal reflection on Halloween and its unique charm, despite a conservative upbringing.
 
- **Cultural Appropriation vs. Appreciation:** The crucial understanding of why some Halloween costumes can be harmful and the significance of making respectful choices.
 
- **The Shadow of Blackfishing:** An exploration of blackfishing – the problematic trend of altering one’s appearance to mimic the look of being of Black or African heritage and why it's considered exploitative.
 
- **A Personal Journey into Black Culture:** Shar shares her own path towards connecting with her black roots and the joy of celebrating one's culture from a position of understanding and respect.
 
- **Listener Engagement:** An invitation for listeners to share their views on Halloween participation, cultural exploration, and embracing diversity.
 
- **Inspiring Action:** Encouragement for those feeling disconnected from their cultural heritage to begin a journey of discovery and connection.
 
**Episode Highlights:**
 
- A candid discussion on the realities of cultural appropriation and its impact on minority cultures.
  
- Shar's personal anecdotes and reflections on growing up with a conservative background, and how it shaped her understanding of Halloween and cultural celebrations.
 
- Insightful conversation on the concept of blackfishing, its implications, and the broader discussion on racial and cultural sensitivity in contemporary society.
 
- Encouragement for individuals, especially those of black heritage, to explore and reconnect with their cultural roots in meaningful ways.
 
- A heartfelt call to action for all to approach cultural exploration with respect, empathy, and an open heart.
 
**Quotes from the Episode:**
 
- "It’s so much more fulfilling to be part of black culture, celebrating it from within, rather than admiring it from a distance."
 
- "People’s races, customs, and cultures are not costumes. Cultivating a world of respect and understanding starts with seeing past the surface."
 
- "Bridging the gap between who you are and the cultural roots you've yet to explore isn't just enriching, it's a journey back home."
 
**Call to Action:**
 
Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode with a friend, and join us next Friday for another engaging episode. If Shar’s journey resonated with you or if you have insights and experiences to share, reach out. Let’s broaden our horizons together and foster a community rooted in respect, curiosity, and inclusiveness.
 
 
Stay tuned, keep listening, and let's embark on this enlightening journey together.

Play Hooky: Hair Care on Your Time

**Episode Summary:**
 
In this eye-opening episode of The Puffy Hair Podcast, host Shar delves deep into the often overlooked saga of hair care, especially within the textured hair community. She challenges the norms of fitting hair transformations within the conventional workday and sheds light on the cultural, emotional, and social intricacies that surround hair care journeys. From the enduring quest for box braids to navigating societal expectations, Shar shares a personal story from her 7th-grade experience that brings to the forefront the importance of prioritizing self-care and hair care, even if it means bending the rules.
**The Hair Care Saga:**
   - Shar initiates a thought-provoking dialogue on the complexities of hair care, particularly for those with textured hair, emphasizing the significant time and dedication it demands.
   - The conversation reflects on the struggles of fitting lengthy salon visits into busy schedules and the increasing challenge of finding stylists available during weekends.
 
**Box Braids Expedition:**
   - The episode takes a closer look at the time-consuming process of getting box braids, comparing it to a full-blown expedition that requires commitment and dedication.
   - Shar enlightens listeners about the journey one undertakes, often traveling to different locations, in pursuit of the perfect box braids, highlighting it as a form of self-care and an expression of cultural identity.
 
**A Personal Tale:**
   - Through Shar's narrative from her 7th-grade experience, listeners are transported back to her trips to Waterloo for hair appointments, a testament to the bonds formed through hair care and the lengths one would go to maintain them.
   - The story unfolds into a confrontation with school authorities, brought about by missing school for a hair appointment, showcasing a clash between cultural practices and institutional policies.
 
**Advocacy and Understanding:**
   - Shar's mother becomes a beacon of advocacy, challenging the school's stance and asserting the importance of cultural sensitivity and the recognition of personal care as paramount.
   - This segment explores the broader issues of cultural acceptance and the need to prioritize self-care over conforming to restrictive policies.
 
**A Call to Action:**
   - Encouraging listeners to reevaluate their priorities, Shar advocates for the importance of self-care, urging individuals to make time for their hair care needs without guilt.
   - The discussion turns to systemic rigidities, like those in schools, pushing for a shift in perspective towards recognizing the importance of personal and cultural practices.
 
**Closing Thoughts:**
 
Shar wraps up by calling on the audience to embrace their hair care journeys as essential, urging them to advocate for their needs and share their own stories of navigating self-care amid societal expectations. With a reminder of the podcast's community support, listeners are encouraged to subscribe, share, and contribute to the ongoing conversation about reclaiming time for self and hair care.
 
**Subscribe & Share:**
 
Don't forget to subscribe to The Puffy Hair Podcast for more empowering discussions, and share this episode with friends and family to spread the word about the importance of prioritizing hair care and self-care on your terms.

Keeping it Colorful: Hair Tips from a Textured Hair Maven with Lora

Welcome back to the Puffy Hair Podcast, where curls, coils, and all the twists in between come to find their voice and space. I'm your host, Shar, and today, we're unfurling the secrets behind textured hair with none other than the legendary Lora.
 
Lora isn't just any stylist – she's a textured hair virtuoso with nearly two decades of experience that have shaped her into the industry beacon she is today. Her journey has been paved with passion, resilience, and a deep-seated love for embracing the natural beauty of textured hair. Today, she's here to share with us not just her unparalleled expertise, but also the story of how she's navigated through challenges to do what she loves the most.
 
**In This Episode:**
 
- **The Beginnings:** Lora takes us back to where it all started, revealing the moments that ignited her passion for textured hair styling and how she took her first steps into the industry.
  
- **Rising Through the Ranks:** From early challenges to her breakthrough moments, Lora discusses her ascent in the world of hair styling, emphasizing the importance of perseverance and dedication.
 
- **The Art of Textured Hair:** Lora delves into what makes textured hair so unique and extraordinary. She'll share her insights on the latest trends, techniques, and treatments that are revolutionizing the way we approach textured hair care.
 
- **Overcoming Obstacles:** The road to success is never smooth. Lora opens up about the hurdles she's had to jump over, from industry biases to personal trials, and how these experiences have shaped her into the maestro she is today.
 
- **Words of Wisdom:** For those aspiring to make their mark in the beauty industry, Lora offers invaluable advice drawn from her own journey. Learn what it takes to succeed and how to thrive by doing what you love.
 
- **Looking Ahead:** What's next for Lora? Get a glimpse into her future projects and how she plans to continue impacting the world of textured hair.
 
**Closing Thoughts:**
 
Lora's story is a testament to the power of passion and perseverance. Whether you're a seasoned stylist, a newcomer to the world of textured hair, or simply someone who appreciates the artistry behind beauty, this episode is a treasure trove of insights, inspiration, and intimate reflections on a professional life devoted to the elevation of textured hair.
 
So, plug in, relax, and let's dive into the wonderful world of curls and coils with Lora. It's time to celebrate the beauty of textured hair, one strand at a time.
 
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To Book with Lora Call or Text: 319-830-8156  or leave a message on The Puffy Hair Face Book group that you would like her to reach out to you. 
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See you there!
 
- Shar

The Unexpected Ties: Finding Family & Navigating Identity

**Episode Summary:**  
In this captivating episode of "The Unexpected Ties," we dive deep into a heartwarming story of discovery, identity, and the powerful bonds of family. Join us as we follow the journey of our host, who, on the brink of motherhood, unravels the truth about her biological family and meets her long-lost sister, Shawna, a federal investigator with a life-changing message. This tale stretches from the cornfields of Iowa to the swimming pools of Texas, shedding light on stories of adoption, cultural exploration, and the creation of the Puffy Hair Podcast. 
 
**What You'll Discover in This Episode:**  
- The incredible tale of how the host met her long-lost sister, Shawna, and the revelation of more siblings scattered across the country.
- A poignant look into the hosts' and Shawna’s upbringing in white conservative Christian families, exploring the nuances of adoption and the quest for cultural identity.
- The inspiration behind the Puffy Hair Podcast and its mission to create a welcoming space for individuals with similar backgrounds to share their unique stories and questions.
- Expert advice on finding the right hair stylist for textured hair and navigating sensory issues with children when introducing new routines, like wearing a bonnet at night.
 
**Key Highlights:**
- Discover Shawna’s contribution to her sister’s life and her influence on starting an inclusive and educational podcast.
- Delve into Shar's and her sister’s personal narratives of adoption, and the challenges and joys it brought into their lives.
- Get practical advice on hair care and dealing with sensory issues from the perspective of individuals who've navigated similar challenges.
 
**Special Sections:**
- **Listener Q&A:** Answers to real questions from the audience about finding a skilled hairstylist for curly hair and helpful tips for parents navigating sensory issues with their children.
- **Resource Links:** Direct links to Shawna’s Manta Swim Academy and recommended therapy services for further support and advice:     mantaswimacademy.com     statestreetcounseling.com
 
 
**Call to Action:**  
Join our community by subscribing to "Puffy Hair Podcast" podcast and leaving your feedback. Have similar stories or questions? Reach out through our social media channels and become part of our next episode!
thepuffyhair.com
 
Make sure to tune in and immerse yourself in a journey of connection, resilience, and the discovery of what truly makes a family.
 

Curls Uncomplicated: Demystifying Hair Trends and Embracing Textured Tresses

Welcome to "the Puffy Hair Podcast" the podcast where we unravel the complexities of textured hair, one curl at a time. Today, we're diving into a seemingly new trend that's actually an old favorite with a twist – gel casting. Plus, we'll break down some hair terminology that might sound alien to the uninitiated. Whether you're a seasoned pro or a newbie seeking guidance on navigating the wondrous world of textured hair, stick around for some enlightening insights.
 
**Episode Highlights:**
 
- **Gel Casting Demystified**: Discover the trend that's been taking social media by storm, only to realize it's a classic technique in disguise. Find out how to achieve that soft, frizz-free look without the crunch.
  
- **Navigating Black Hair Terminology in White Spaces**: Feeling lost when it comes to hairstyling terms specific to textured hair? You're not alone. We're here to guide you through some of the basics and beyond, offering a springboard for further exploration.
  
- **The Curly Girl Method – A Critical Take**: Hear our thoughts on the Curly Girl Method, its limitations, and why it might not be the one-size-fits-all solution it's made out to be. Whether you're for or against the method, we're here to shed some light on its practices.
  
- **Decoding Hair Styling Techniques**: From raking to shingling, and finger coiling – we explain these terms and techniques, helping you understand how they can transform your hair care routine.
  
- **A Glossary of Textured Hair Terms**: Feel like you're reading a foreign language when you hear terms like "Bantu knots" or "silk press"? We'll give you the rundown on these and many more, aiming to enrich your hairstyling vocabulary.
  
- **Navigating the Hairstyling World Without Fear**: Unsure of how to describe the hairstyle you want? We emphasize the importance of pictures and open communication with your stylist, ensuring you walk out feeling fabulous.
  
- **Listener Q&A**: Afraid to ask certain questions about textured hair? We address inquiries from the community, fostering a safe space for learning and discussion.
 
**Closing Thoughts:**
Textured hair is incredibly versatile, and with the right knowledge and techniques, the possibilities for styling are endless. Whether you're embracing your natural curls, exploring new styles, or simply seeking to understand more about textured hair care, we're here to support your journey.
 
**Contact Us:**
For more tips, or if you have questions or topics you'd like us to cover, visit us at [puffyhair.com](http://thepuffyhair.com) or join our community on the Puffy Hair Facebook page. Your insights and experiences enrich our conversations, and together, we can continue to foster a culture of inclusion and understanding around textured hair.
 
Thanks for tuning in to the show. We'll be back next Friday with more hair care wisdom and stories from the heart. Stay curly, stay confident!
 
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Puffy Hair Mythbusters: Debunking Common Black Hair Misconceptions

Hey guys, it's Char, and welcome to another episode of the Puffy Hair Podcast! Today, we're diving deep into the world of black hair care to debunk some of the most common misconceptions. We're going to obliterate falsehoods and celebrate the authentic essence of our natural crowns.
In this episode, we tackle five top myths about black hair. From the belief that all black people have the same hair type to the notion that black hair doesn't grow, we're setting the record straight. We'll also discuss the Andre Walker hair typing system, the truth about hair growth, and why black hair is incredibly versatile yet fragile.
Join me as we explore these myths, share some hair care tips, and celebrate the beauty of textured hair. Whether you're looking for guidance on how to care for your curls or just want to learn more about black hair, this episode has something for everyone.
Don't forget to leave a review, share with a friend, and connect with me via email at puffyhaireducation.com. Let's embrace our natural beauty and wear our hair loud and proud!
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Embrace Your Bonnet: Navigating Hair Culture and Confidence

Welcome back to the Puffy Hair Podcast! In this episode, Shar tackles a heartfelt question from listener Angel, who feels self-conscious about wearing a bonnet in front of her soon-to-be husband. Shar offers practical advice and shares her own experiences to normalize the practice and boost confidence.
Shar delves into the cultural significance of bonnets in the Black community, exploring their history, purpose, and how they've been perceived over time. She touches on the controversy sparked by Monique's comments about Black women wearing bonnets in public, presenting different viewpoints and her own stance on the matter.
Join Shar as she educates, empowers, and celebrates textured hair, offering a compassionate space for listeners to share their stories and learn valuable hair care tips. Don't miss this insightful discussion on hair culture, identity, and self-love.

Taking Action Against Hair Discrimination and The CROWN Act

Are you ready to make a difference in the fight against hair discrimination? this week Shar dives deep into the groundbreaking CROWN Act, a law designed to ban discrimination based on hairstyle and texture. From braids to twists, we celebrate all hair types and advocate for inclusivity. 
 
Learn how education is the key to understanding and combating discrimination. Get inspired by stories of resilience and empowerment and 
discuss how to advocate for the CROWN Act in your state. 
 
Steps to Take:
Contact Local Representatives:
- Express support for the CROWN Act
- Encourage bringing the issue to your Governor’s  attention
 
Engage with Advocacy Groups:
- Reach out to organizations promoting the CROWN Act 
- Join or support their strategies and campaigns
 
Participate in Events:
- Attend rallies, forums, and town halls
- Raise awareness about the CROWN Act
 
Utilize Social Media:
- Share information about the CROWN Act
- Encourage advocacy and tag local leaders
 
Together, we can make a difference and create a more respectful and inclusive world for natural hair. Take action today to support the CROWN Act in your state today. Stay informed, engaged, and amplify your voice for change.
To advocate for the CROWN Act in Iowa: 
 
Office of the Governor
Iowa State Capitol
1007 East Grand Avenue
Des Moines, IA 50319 
 
1-515-281-5211
 
https://governor.iowa.gov/contact-office-governor
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